Debt free, financial Abundance in one year.

Welcome welcome to this blog here at fedupofbeingpoor.com, and just to jump on the band wagon Happy New year.

I am Steven Alexander, blogger, writer,coach and much more, good to see you here.

If you are new here, my blog is all about helping people out of the poverty trap, giving them hints, tips, easy ways to make money legally that anyone can do with no experience, talent or skills, any age, any gender, non judgemental.

the site is a sign post to a whole range of resources and help out there available to those that need it should people want it and saying they are, fed up of being poor, fed up of being skint, no money.

It aims to be a helping hand and to be the thing that I needed when I was in the situation I was in. This is mainly a journal and a journey, so one day when people ask, how did you do it I can tell them. Is this an easy journey, is it a get quick rich scheme is it a selling site – it is none of those. This site may contain adverts and banners as i need to pay for this site and may point to other services but primarily it is to help those that need it.

So, honestly speaking… how was 2018 financially for you?

In today’s post I will cover:

i) 2018 financial goals and how I achieved them through determination and hard work.

ii) fedupofbeingpoor.com gets on you tube. special edition.

iii) Blogging saved my mental health and helped others and earned me money.

iv) Achieved qualifications

v) Set up of my own business and new career as a Motivation Coach.

I discover Law of attraction – and see it work!

So here was how I did it –

I have to be honest it was quite the ride for me.. and these were my goals.

GET OUT OF DEBT

GET MENTORS – SEEK HELP – EDUCATE MYSELF

SAVE and MAKE MONEY…….

So what did I learn and did it work?

One of my goals last year was to get on you tube– why because I felt that was where the cool folk go to and are.. and I could help people and…..

.And .. well I was not cool and had no idea what I was doing.

However I gave it a go because I wanted to teach my 7 year old to be better with her money than me and give her the teaching I did not have when I was her age… and guess where the cool kids hang out … on you tube… so I had to prove her old man was cool and she could go into school proud to tell her friends her dad was indeed “a you tuber”

Do you want to see it??? It is not polished it is not professional, it is only basic and aimed at 7 year olds as my target audience.

Enjoy. Please like out of kindness.

It was my first and maybe last video. PLEASE REMEMBER ITS TARGET AUDUIENCE!

Nov 2017 – March 2018 Mission raise £3000 to get me out of debt. Bare in mind I had also been made homeless end of November, my car had been written off and I was  also penniless.

I managed to get a roof over my head, got lots of paid work and  I did this in 3 months and bought my first car that I paid for by myself in December.

2018 Late Jan after forking out lots of money on the old car and getting fed up, I had to scrap this an.d invest in a better car.. I ended up with a car I had wanted for a while.. large boot, tow bar, automatic and the make I wanted at a price I could afford.

Feb 18 – August saw me just get as much work as I could as I was on my own (as previously I was in a relationship with joint finances) but now I had rent to find and food and the cost of living to find…This was hard work and I pulled some crazy hours at work to make sure I did not slip into debt. and I did what I needed to do.. There was no way I wanted to go back.

Studied hard – I watched so many you tube videos and connected with lots of money saving sites and money making sites, looking at passive income and income streams  (Do a web search and lots come up) and I started to make and save money…

I started this blog to help others and myself, with the hope of the blog earning money… let me share with you.. this is a skill and honestly do you want to know how much I earn from this site…0.06$ this last year from ads… so I have a long way to go… but I have helped others and myself which is more important. Maybe this time next year I will be a millionaire #millionaire mindset. This blog acted like a journal and really did help my mental health as I became depressed and every day was a real battle to live.

I cut down on who I gave money to.. If you feel that others need it more than your needs then you have to do what you feel is right for you.

I learned the difference between what I wanted and needed, so was I wasting what I did have? How can I make my money stretch further? who owes me money or favours – time to cash in…..

Finally I saw another you tube video about some guy wanting me to buy his book or come to a conference and how he turned his life around from his sales job to his own business which is still in sales only for himself…. BUT the point of his book is how to turn your passions into money….. so I made a list of my hobbies and interests and how to make money from these. “Passion into Profit” Andy Harrington – check him out.

Mentors – These were not actual mentors as such one to one but I have to mention those I tuned to and helped me… (Click inside the brackets below to take you to the links)

Work from home – (passive income)

(skintmomanddad)

Dave Ramsey (lots of videos on you tube) – (Be better with money and get out of debt  7 steps to success)

Martin Lewis  – (Money saving Expert )

Jamie Rohrbaugh  “Over not Under” Christian support for those who need extra help  – (prayers and resources.) 

Kain Ramsey  (teaching and encouragement) and the (Achology community) 

and to friends mainly and two great churches in the uk where I live( Light of Life Baptist Church)  and  (Kingsgate community Church) who looked after my spiritual well being.

Steve Bremner, an inspirational guy Author, mentor amongst other things who challenged me to be better but more importantly to start writing. If you have a passion for writing any book or blogs especially I recommend Steve. Start your dream to write click here:

Coaching  (“SAS Mindset Coaching”)- I now offer life coaching and have currently qualified in Hypnotherapy and Neuro-linguistic  Practice (turning negatives into positives, rewiring of the brain) Money coaching and with Cognitive Behavioural Therapy coming soon and I will be adding to my counselling skills shortly but  if you fancy some quick free coaching tips if in need of some piece of mind you can still get these over at the other blog I run click here >>>>> Refiners Way

I am also debt free, mortgage free and soon in a job that pays more and the hours suit me better and I can still do my coaching and whatever else I need  or want to do thanks to the art of leverage – #Freedom life  – I may post about this another time.

The law of attraction helped me to focus on what I wanted and I saw mind blowing results by focusing on the things I wanted..job positions, new cars, houses for sale I liked “just pop up for sale” money making opportunities.

This were my high lights of the year how was yours and what do you have planned for this year?

THANK YOU for following me, your support has really been amazing and I cannot thank my followers enough- This year is going to be bigger and explosive and I would love to take you all with me if you want to stay in touch.

This site will change as it develops a little but please bare with me.

I am also open to feedback on how it can be better for you. I am sorry this post has been about me….it has been a hard year, very hard – The next few posts shall return to helping to serve you.

God bless you for reading and look out for further Posts.

Steven Alexander…………

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Stay Hungry

Welcome,

Can I ask a question. “Are you hungry right now..and if so what are you hungry for?

Are you fed up of being poor? Do you know what it is like to-be-so-fedup-of-beingpoor?

“Stay hungry” seems an odd title, but this idea of being “hungry” for something is a real motivator as it can push you to strive more for whatever that need is.

When most people think of hungry, they think of being food hunger..but if you think about that feeling, it is about a deep need that needs to be filled, so in that case you need food.

Today I am writing about that hunger to get out of debt maybe or earn extra income or have a better relationship with money … do you ever feel those those?

Do you want to have £250.000 in your account or whatever the equivalent  in your currency?

That would be amazing right?

I have a vision board, and on that board is that figure £250,000..

Every day I look at that and I say to myself I want to earn £250, 000.

You may ask why do I want that? why would you ?

I have seen a house that I want. It is beautiful!!

It has lots of rooms, large garden, room for cars and visitors and  a kitchen to cook for family and friends and somewhere where I can do my washing and a swimming pool.

Maybe if I had money left over I would start a business to help others.

The truth is ,I have seen many houses like this, but can I afford them? -No.

I am on minimum wage, I struggle to keep my head above the water…….

BUT I aim to be resourceful and one way or other I will get the money I need, why because I have passion and drive. I am hungry! I do not want to be poor, I do not want to live in poor housing and worry if buying my kids shoes means I have to go without food myself, but I buy those shoes.

Sometimes that figure seems miles away and a mountain… but I read somewhere…

“I tell you the truth, if you had faith even as small as a mustard seed, you could say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it would move. Nothing would be impossible.” Matthew 17:20

I tell you one way or other I will get what I want because I am hungry. I have a dream, I have vision and I know how good that will feel because I can feel that now as though I have received it -I am hungry! (Law of attraction thinking!)

“What to focus on totally affects your life. Think about it. whatever you focus on you will feel even though it’s not true….Focus equals feelings… feelings equals direction” Tony Robbins

A teacher once told me a story of two men who looked out of a prison cell and one looked up and saw the stars and the other looked down at the mud – same position different perspective.

I am holding strong to a vision I had how me giving  to others all I have will see it paid forward back to me several times over because I give unconditionally without conditions and this comes at great risk and cost to myself but I have faith.. it may be little faith.. small faith, faith the size of a mustard seed – but I believe!

I would love for my blogs to earn me money. I would like for all the free advice I give out to earn me money..I would like the part time job I have to give me more money but I am looking after my daughter and frankly I want to enjoy life and working full time would kill me – (but it would bring in extra income!)

Some might say but If I am not prepared to work full time then money will not come as I am lazy.

This is wrong! I have been at work for 24 hours and I still have time to help and support others on line in need of help, and I watch videos that will make me a better person and educate myself which keeps me up when  should be sleeping but I strive to be better human being and helping others keeps me alive.

Maybe I  want life on my terms and work what I want when I want, and even if I earned enough so I did not have to work, I would still work because that is who I am, in a job I am guessing that is helping others less fortunate than myself.

Let me encourage you to keep dreaming. Change your focus if you need to.. change your story if your story isn’t working for you, because the same story gets dull right!

Stay hungry!

Achieve those dreams?

Continue to be so fed up of being poor.

God bless you and thanks for reading and following.

Listen to more words of Tony Robbins – An amazing life coach and mentor<<<<<<<<<<<

Please visit soon. Please feel free to comment or get in touch with your thoughts and experiences.

NEW:) <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< I offer online private and confidential debt support…so if you need a chat, or talk to someone, please do get in touch, I would love to hear from you.

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Steven Alexander

NEW:) <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< I offer online private and confidential debt support…so if you need a chat, or talk to someone, please do get in touch, I would love to hear from you.

 

 

Be more “Fanny Blankers”

Huge welcome, and apologies for the strange title, but got you curious?

FANNY BLANKERS, have you heard of her? She was an Olympian many years ago and who is  celebrated by google. I was inspired by her life.

Have you ever heard the phrase “be careful what you ask for” you may just get it?

I want to grab this and claim it for me, for YOU for those others who  are”fed up of being poor” but also those of us who want to BE MORE SUCCESSFUL.

I WANT TO SEE YOU BE SUCCESSFUL. 

I may not even know you, but the fact that you are reading this means you are reading it for a reason.

In short: I want to see us grab and claim!

I want to see us get the traffic we need, get the adverts, get the help, get that thing that we are after.. Reach strive.. Get back up again! Come back stronger.

Do you have people in your life who did not encourage you but instead mocked your dreams and ideas?

Today we look at them and are reminded that we are better, we were created for greatness.

We are the dreamers, the idealists, the pragmatists, the revolutionists, the pioneers, the trail blazers, the do- ers, and the why nots!

This last week the theme of re-visiting my “vision board” kept coming back to me.

If you have never done a “vision board” I cannot recommend them enough.

I fully believe in the power of these.

In essence, though they can be as creative or as simple as you want them, they are just goals and dreams you want to see happen put on paper, or on your tech device.

It can be the clients you want, the business, the house, the car, debts paid off.

For me currently its a donation from an unknown source for £2000 to start my business to support others. (FULL TIME)

Visualization….

Rubbish you may think! Or if you have a board let me know your experiences. I will soon be uploading mine and then filling you in when it comes true.

If you want help doing one. get in touch for your free vision board.

I will happily help anyone free of charge-no catch.

I want to see more people:

visualizing

Dreams of success:

Bank accounts being filled rather than have holes:

Debts being repaid:

People investing in themselves and others:

Giving people a hand up instead of a hand out unless it is reaching out!

When the little fishes seek help-for Gods sake just help them because you were them once and one day you may need that help.

Pay it forward:

Don’t forget your roots and routes:) where you were from and how you got there.

Today it does not matter who you are, where you are from, I believe in you.

be a trail blazer

Check out more information on Vision boards here -Free Resources in “The Throne Room”

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Reaching out to others and achieving goals and dreams together

Thanks for reading!

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Time out is time well spent

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